Lo Meyi uzobe ukhuluma ngokuhlala ezindleleni zakho zakudala futhi ngeke uvunyelwe ukuzama izigqoko ezintsha zomthwalo wemfanelo noma ukuqala amaphrojekthi amasha. Ngakho-ke udinga ukujabula ngalokho okufanele ukwenze manje futhi ungavimbeli noma yimaphi amaqoqo wezinsuku aphithizelayo adala ukuphazamiseka okukhulu kunalokho asezokwenza vele.
Imizamo yezenhlalakahle ibonakala ingena esigabeni esifanayo engxenyeni yokuqala yenyanga, ngakho-ke ungalindeli ukuthi uzoba nezimemo ezizolayini kanti lezo ongazithola kungenzeka zingakhangi ngokwanele. Lokhu kungakwenza ube nexhala kakhulu kunokujwayelekile futhi nomlingani wakho ngeke athole izinkinobho ezifanele zokucindezela ukukubuyisela emuva.
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Ukubamba phezulu
Cishe nge-10thmhlawumbe uzohlaselwa ngemihlangano ebuyela emuva emsebenzini futhi ngeke ube nesikhathi sokuphefumula, ingasaphathwa eyokwenza noma yini enye, yomsebenzi noma owakho. Uma labo abaseduze bengenalo uzwela kuzofanele ubabambe kanzima futhi usethe imingcele ethile.
Lapho ziphazamisa ngokwengeziwe, konke kuzoba matasa ngokwengeziwe. Lokhu kuzoba ngenye yezimpi zakho ezinkulu kulezi zinsuku, uzama ukuhlala untanta ngempilo yomuntu siqu neyomsebenzi.
Kepha njengoba izinsuku zihamba futhi sisondela maphakathi nenyanga kubonakala sengathi uthola isikhathi esikhululekile futhi ungathola noma yini obukade ulahlekile.
Ukugxila kwakho futhi kuyashintsha kokuzilibazisa okudala futhi uthambekele ekuboneni imisebenzi yasendlini njengendawo yokubuyela emuva. Uma ugcina ukuphikelela kwakho, uzokwazi ukuzuza okuningi kakhulu kunalokho okulindele ngesikhathi esincane.
Iphuzu lobukhulu
Kepha-ke lokhu akukhona ukuhlala lapha futhi ubuvila buzongena kungekudala noma nini futhi uzoqhubeka uzitholela izaba. Izindaba ezimnandi zalokhu ukuthi abantu abaningi abaseduze kwakho ngeke bakhathazeke ngalokhu ngakho ngeke bathi vu.
Kepha uma lokhu ukubheka ngombono walokho okulahlekelayo, kuyihlazo-ke ukuthi akekho ozimisele noma onendaba ngokwanele ukubhekana nawe. Abangu-18thkungaletha umvuthwandaba othile empini edlule futhi ekugcineni ungathola okuthile.
Ukuthula, noma kunjalo, ngeke kube kude ngasohlangothini lwakho njengoba kubonakala sengathi izinsuku zokugcina eziyi-10 zenyanga zizokubuyisela emsebenzini omningi futhi asikho isikhathi sakho. Abomdabu abangabodwa bazoba ngabazuzi kakhulu ngoba abanabo ubudlelwano abangakhathazeka ngabo.
Simi kuphi
Ungabekwa esimweni sokuthethelela ezinye izinqumo ezedlule futhi ngeke ukwazi ngempela ukuthola amagama akho ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi uzoxoshwa ngokuphelele noma ungaqondakali ngokuphelele.
ungathandana kanjani nendoda gemini
Ngenkathi kwesinye isikhathi kungenzeka ukuthi ukuthinte kakhulu lokhu, esimeni samanje umatasa kakhulu ukuthi ungaze ucabange kabili ngakho. Ngakho-ke kuyinto enhle kufanele usebenze.
Akuyona into enhle uma kukhulunywa ngamathuba wokuhamba ungahle ulahleke ngenxa yomsebenzi nokho. Futhi kungahle kube khona icala lesiphakamiso sangempela kuzodingeka usenqabe ngoba udinga ukuba nesibopho.
Uyomangala ukuthola ukuthi umatasa kangakanani, lapho uzocaca ngokwengeziwe khona izinhloso zakho zesikhathi eside, mhlawumbe ngoba awusenaso isikhathi sokungabaza ngazo. Ngasikhathi sinye ujabulile ngawe futhi lo muzwa wokufeza okuthile ungahlala nawe isikhathi eside kunezinsuku ezimbalwa ngalesi sikhathi.
Okufanele ukwenze ngokulandelayo
Ukuxhumana kuzoba phambili esontweni lokugcina lenyanga futhi uzobekwa ezimeni lapho udinga khona ukuthumela umyalezo ofanayo kubantu abahlukahlukene futhi udinga ukuvumelanisa ithoni nendlela yabo ngamunye wabo.
Yize lokhu kungabonakala kuyinselele ekuqaleni, maduzane uzokuthola futhi ekugcineni ugcine ukujabulele. Lokhu futhi kungakuxhumanisa nabantu abaningi kakhulu uma kuqhathaniswa nenani lokuxhumana onakho usuku olujwayelekile lomsebenzi.
Noma konke lokhu kungakhathaza, kuzokusiza uvikele ukuxhumana okuthile okuthakazelisayo. Lesi yisikhathi lapho udinga futhi ukuqaphela ukubukeka kwakho nolimi lomzimba wakho. Zama ukufihla ukungazethembi nemizwelo, okungenani lapho uphakathi kwabantu abasesikhundleni esifanayo nawe.
