Kwabanye, inyanga kaDisemba ingumlingo, ikakhulukazi ngenxa yamaholide kunjalo. Kepha kuwe, kubukeka sengathi kuzodlula lokhu. Naka lokho okwenziwa abanye, landela ukuhola kwabo uma uzizwa ukuthi lokhu kulungile noma uvukele kubo uma kunini isikhathi.
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Kepha noma yini oyenzayo, bhekisisa okukhona ngoba nakhu uzokwazi ukubamba okuningi okuzayo kuwe, ngokwamathuba, kule nyanga.
Qaphela impilo ngoba ingcindezi mhlawumbe igudla imifantu oyishiya njalo uma usebenza kanzima noma uzizwa ukhungathekile. Kunokuningi okungenzeka, ngokukhuluma ngokomsebenzi, kwabanye kepha kukhona nenani okufanele ulikhokhele ngalokho.
Abanye bazogxila kakhulu kwezikamoya futhi yize bengeke badinge ukuba baphane ngokwengeziwe futhi baqonde, lokho ebebakulindele ekuqaleni, empeleni bazobe befunde isifundo esibaluleke kakhulu esizoziveza kamuva.
Okunye ukungabaza ukuqala ngakho
Uma ucindezela ngokwengeziwe ngamathuba athile kuzokuzwakala sengathi kulandela konke okwenzayo kuzo zonke izimo ongazenzela izinhlelo zakho. Kwabanye bomdabu, kungahle kuhlobene ne-hypochondria yabo eyaziwayo kanti kwabanye, kususelwa ekuphelelweni ithemba kwabo.
Akunandaba noma ngabe iyini imbangela, into okuthi, ngasendleleni, udinga ukuyilungisa, okubalulekile futhi ukuthi uthole izindlela zokunqoba lokhu.
Unqena ukulalela izeluleko zalabo abaseduze kwakho, kungaba kubo abavela emndenini noma emsebenzini, kungaba ngoba ungakholelwa ukuthi bangakuqonda noma bamane ngenxa yenkani.
Ngaphandle kwezingozi lokhu okudala noma ikuphi Mashi isinyathelo ongahle ube naso kulezi zinsuku, singakubuyisela emuva maqondana nendlela ozibheka ngayo wena kanye namakhono akho.
Ekukhanyeni
Cishe nge-10th, okuthile kungasiza, uhlobo oluthile lwesiqephu esivela emsebenzini lapho uzoba khona inkanyezi kanti abanye, ngokunokwenzeka umuntu onegunya obheke kuye, bazobona ukufaneleka kwakho.
Kwabanye bomdabu, lokhu kungahle kuhumushele ku- umklomelo wezezimali ngenkathi ezinye zizobekwa obala okwamanje. Kepha noma ngabe ukuluphi isigaba, lokhu kubonwa okusezingeni eliphezulu kuzokusiza ukuthi uqhubeke neminye imicabango.
Gwema ama-clichés neminye imithetho esunguliwe ngoba kubonakala sengathi maphakathi nale nyanga awuvunyelwe kuphela kepha futhi uthonywe kahle ukuphuma endaweni yakho yokunethezeka ungazami, hhayi into entsha kepha into engakaze yenziwe ngokoqobo ngaphambili.
Yini enye okufanele uyenze
Izinsuku eziholela ngase-18thizogcwala umsebenzi endlini futhi mhlawumbe uzozizwa ulusizo kakhulu. Hlanganisa lokhu nokuhlala ubhekile ekukhanyeni ngemuva kwalesi siqephu somsebenzi futhi ngeke uvumele noma yimiphi imibono ekhathazayo noma engemihle ikuphazamise.
Mhlawumbe kungasiza ukuhlangana nabangane bakho futhi uthathe noma iziphi izethembiso zenhlalo endleleni ngaphambi kwamaholide. Kwezinye izimo, uzokwenza kanjalo zijabulise ngokweqiniso ngenkathi kwabanye, ngokwemvelo, ngeke uzizwe ngempela kumzwelo ofanayo.
Okumangazayo okuncane okuvela kubantu ongakaze ubabone isikhashana kungavela empilweni yakho. Futhi, abanye kuzodingeka bahambe ukubuyisa umusa kepha lokhu kungabonakala kokuhlangenwe nakho okumnandi, lapho usenkampanini efanele.
Izinkinga zangokwezifiso
Kubukeka sengathi uzofundiswa isifundo esibalulekile kule nyanga, into ehlobene nezikhathi ezisuka empilweni yakho nezikhathi ezivela kubo bonke abantu nokuthi kufanele usabele kanjani.
Akuwona wonke umuntu avumelanisiwe ukuze ajabule futhi aneliseke ngasikhathi sinye noma akhathazeke futhi abe nezinkinga ngasikhathi sinye.
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Ngokungenakugwenywa, kuzoba nalezo zikhathi lapho othile esegagasini eliphakeme ngenkathi wena uphansi noma okuphambene.
Kepha lesi akusona isizathu sokukhathazeka noma umona nabo noma ukuthi baziphathe kabi futhi bakuthathele konke lapho kwenzeka okuphambene nalokho.
Uma ukwazi ukushiya leyo mizwa yokukhungatheka eceleni, ikakhulukazi kumalungu omndeni, uzothola indlela elula yokuhamba ngalesi sikhathi samaholide kakhulu. Uyazi, leso sikhathi lapho wonke umuntu eqala ukutshela ukuthi ubekade enza ini nokuthi impilo yakhe isabeka kanjani.
