Inyanga yezindaba ezinhle kulo Disemba kodwa ungalali kuyo ngoba uzobe umatasa impela. Amathuba namathuba amasha eza kulabo abazama futhi ungakuthola ukuthi lapho uguqula umqondo wakho uye kolunye uhlangothi, izinzuzo eziningi zizokuvela kulokho.
Ngezinye izikhathi ungazizwa ufisa ukuthi ungahlela ezinye izinto zisuka empilweni yakho kepha kuzofanele ufunde nalabo futhi. Le nyanga akuyona neze uthisha onekhono kodwa futhi ungumfundi onenkani.
Futhi ngokungqubuzana nale nto yokuba yinyanga yokugcina yonyaka, kubonakala sengathi kuwe kuyinto ethile yokubeka izisekelo ezintsha kweminye imisebenzi. Qaphela ukuthi ufiselani ngoba kungenzeka empeleni yenzeke futhi awufuni ukubambeka entweni ongacabangi ngayo.
Ukudala nabanye
Esontweni lokuqala, ubamba abanye, kungaba ngumndeni noma abangani, ngemibono yakho futhi lokhu kubonakala kunethonya elikhulu kunalokho ongakucabanga. Kepha lokhu akusho ukuthi ungalindela okufanayo ngokubuya, ikakhulukazi uma ungacacisanga kahle ukuthi ziyini izidingo zakho.
Inqobo nje uma wazi ngaleli phethini, akukho ukukhungatheka ungangena kulokhu futhi ukhululekile ukuphishekela noma imiphi imisebenzi yomuntu siqu onayo engqondweni.
Mashi ikuthumela amasiginali ezenzo kepha kwezinye izinsuku ungahle nje ubevilapha ukulandela.
Futhi noma ngabe usabela ngokushesha, kubalulekile ukuthi ukhetha ukwenzani. Engikushilo akuhloselwe ukwethusa wena noma ukuletha ukungabaza. Udinga nje ukunakwa okuningi ukuze ungangeni kunoma yini eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu.
Uthando namaholide
Akuzona zonke izimpukane ezingadliwa futhi kubonakala sengathi kusuka kweziyi-10thku, izinto ziyinkimbinkimbi kancane empilweni yakho yothando futhi eminye imingcele kuzodingeka ibekwe lapho.
Kuphakathi kokuthi wena noma umlingani wakho nidale lokhu kuncika okungenampilo kakhulu futhi nidinga ukuhlukana nalokho.
Futhi kungezikhathi ezifana nalezi lapho nichitha isikhathi esiningi sindawonye lapho ningabona khona lokho. Izibalo azijabuli kakhulu uma kukhulunywa imibhangqwana namaholide ngakho-ke nawe kudingeka ukukuqaphele lokho.
Izinkinga eziveziwe akumele zisunduzelwe ngaphansi kukakhaphethi ngoba zizovela kungekudala futhi ngobukhulu obuhlukile mhlawumbe.
Ngokumangazayo, kungenzeka ukuthi usizo olungalindelekile luvela kubantu bomndeni wakho abebengakholelwa ebudlelwaneni bakho kwasekuqaleni noma abebephakathi kwezingxoxo ezithile phakathi kwakho nomlingani wakho, esikhathini esedlule.
Amathuba olunye uhlobo
Uma sikhuluma ngokwezezimali, kunokuningi lapho ungachitha khona futhi ube nesandla esivulekile kule sizini kwabanye futhi noma ngabe isimo sakho besingesihle kakhulu muva nje, uzothola izindlela zokukhuphula amazinga.
Abanye kungadingeka babhekane nemibono evela emsebenzini futhi lokhu kuzoletha ukuzinyeza futhi. Gwema ukuhlangana ngokuhleba ngakho-ke ngeke uvezwe kunoma yini yalolu hlobo.
Uma ufuna ukulalela izeluleko ezithile, khona-ke thola umuntu okwangempela uchwepheshe emkhakheni wabo futhi ngubani owazi ngempela ukuthi bathini.
Labo abafuna ukuthenga impahla noma ukwenza uhlobo oluthile lotshalo-mali empeleni bangathola ukuthi le nkathi ilusizo, hhayi kuphela ngoba kuncintisana okuncane kepha futhi ngoba banesikhathi esiseduze sokuthola isivumelwano esifanele.
Okujwayelekile
Ngasekupheleni kwenyanga uzozizwa ubambekile ngandlela thile ngenxa yamaholide futhi yize ukhuluma nje uzokujabulela ukuvilapha neminye imikhosi, kusekhona lo mlilo ngaphakathi kuwe okukhuthaza ukuthi wenze okuthile, noma yini.
Lokhu kungahle kuphume ngezinhlobo ezahlukene nosayizi, kwabanye ngokusebenzisa ama-exces s ngenkathi abanye besilwa namazwi abayo nanoma ngubani ozama ukubathukuthelisa noma abonakale engabaqondi.
Kepha kungamaholide futhi inqobo nje uma impilo yakho, yazo zombili izinhlobo, ezengqondo nezomzimba zingathinteki ngempela, uzodlula kulokhu, njengoba nje wenza minyaka yonke.
